WHO'S YOUR STEP DADDY? 🤔

The question nobody asks in sales… but maybe there's an important lesson hiding behind it.

I've been thinking about something that I believe deserves a much bigger conversation in the sales industry.

What if growing up with a stepparent gives some people an unexpected advantage in sales?

Think about it.

Some people spend thousands of dollars on sales training, learning how to read people, build relationships, earn trust, navigate objections, and adapt to different personalities.

Others may have started developing those exact skills at the dinner table when they were 8 years old.

Growing up in a blended family can mean learning a unique set of interpersonal skills:

1. Reading the room. Learning to recognize moods, personalities, and unspoken expectations before opening your mouth.

2. Building relationships. Figuring out how to connect with someone who wasn't originally part of your family dynamic.

3. Earning trust. Understanding that respect and trust aren't always automatic. Sometimes they have to be built through consistency.

4. Adapting to change. Different households, different expectations, different personalities. Learning that what works with one person might completely fail with another.

5. Negotiating and problem-solving. Learning when to speak, when to listen, when to compromise, and when to stand your ground.

6. Emotional intelligence. Recognizing that what someone says and what someone actually feels aren't always the same thing.

Now think about what separates an average salesperson from an exceptional one.

Is it product knowledge? Scripts? Closing techniques?

Or is it the ability to understand another human being?

Because here's what I've learned about sales:

People don't buy simply because you have the right answer.

They buy because you've figured out how to make them comfortable enough to trust your answer.

I'm not suggesting everyone raised in a blended family becomes a great salesperson, or that people from traditional families lack these abilities. There's no established rule that having a stepparent makes someone better at sales.

But I do believe our childhood experiences can develop skills that no sales training program can fully replicate.

And it makes me wonder how many exceptional salespeople developed their greatest competitive advantage long before receiving their first paycheck.

Maybe we're spending too much time evaluating where people have worked and not enough time understanding what life has taught them.

So here's my question:

Could some of the best sales training in the world happen before we're even old enough to know what sales is?

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